The positive outlook

The positive outlook

meditation and self-help‘Mental Health’ has become a buzzword, especially in a post-Covid world. Taking care of your mental health and keeping a positive outlook is crucial for overall well-being and quality of life.

If you consider how many ‘daily interactions’  a person had in 1960 compared to someone living today, the difference is staggering. We are talking of a time when people had secretaries typing their letters and posting them to get a reply a few days later. Socialising was always face-to-face in familiar surroundings. No hundreds of emails you are left to deal with all by yourself, facetime, zoom meetings around the world and this is not even taking social media and all the other forms of communication into consideration.

This overload of communication is also targeted. Before everybody watched roughly the same news or had a choice of a few newspapers to get their information. Not so today. We live in a world where you may have more communication and things in common with someone in Costa Rica than at the end of your road.

With this constant overload, no wonder our mental health can be challenged.

How do you look after your mental health?
  • Prioritize Self-Care: Make time for activities that you enjoy and that help you relax and recharge. This could include hobbies, spending time with loved ones, practicing mindfulness or meditation, or engaging in physical activity.
  • Look up this symbol for some ideasmeditation and self-helpMaintain a Healthy Lifestyle: Eat a balanced diet, get regular exercise, and prioritize getting enough sleep. Physical health and mental health are closely linked, so taking care of your body can have a positive impact on your mood and mental well-being. One of the big tell-tale signs of depression is the lack of self-care.
  • Stay Connected: Build and maintain supportive relationships with friends, family members, and others who you trust and feel comfortable talking to. Social connections can provide emotional support and a sense of belonging, which are important for mental health.
  • Seek Help When Needed: If you’re struggling with your mental health, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. This could involve talking to a therapist, counselor, or mental health professional, or reaching out to a trusted friend or family member. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help when you need it.Practice Mindfulness and Stress-Reduction Techniques: Incorporate mindfulness, meditation, deep breathing exercises, or other stress-reduction techniques into your daily routine to help manage stress and promote relaxation.Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to things that drain your energy or cause you undue stress. Setting boundaries can help you protect your mental and emotional well-being and prioritize your own needs.
  • Limit Exposure to Negative Influences: Be mindful of the media you consume and how it affects your mood and mental health. Limit exposure to news or social media that may be triggering or cause feelings of anxiety or distress. Remember you can influence your microcosmos, but not the wider macrocosmos, so why spend so much time being anxious/angry/exercised about something you do not influence?
  • Engage in Activities That Bring You Joy: Instead concentrate more on what makes you happy, and how you can improve. There your behavior and thoughts can make a big difference.  Make time for activities that bring you joy and fulfillment, whether that’s spending time outdoors, pursuing creative interests, or volunteering in your community. Being fulfilled and with positive, like-minded people will help a lot with your mental health.

 

Manifesting: 

“Manifesting” typically refers to the practice of focusing one’s thoughts, beliefs, and energy on bringing about a desired outcome or reality. It is often associated with the concept of the law of attraction, which suggests that positive or negative thoughts bring positive or negative experiences into a person’s life.

Well, it all sounds very woo-hoo, but using techniques such as visualization, affirmations, and gratitude exercises to align their thoughts and emotions with their goals and desires has proven again and again to make a big difference. It is free and easy to do, so why dismiss it?

The idea is that by consistently maintaining a positive mindset and believing in the possibility of achieving your goals, you attract positive outcomes into your life. As they say ” seeing is believing!”

If you can ‘visualize and believe’ in something, you can trick your mind into believing it has already happened. Creating intentions and acting them out does work. Most people hold themselves back with their negative thoughts or even worse with negative thoughts put into their heads by (often well-meaning loved ones or the media).

Manifesting is the practice of shutting all other voices out and just simply seeking your voice and magnifying it.

Ultimately, it is not the manifesting that works. But putting your visions and thoughts into action. But for this, you need to know first what you want.

Meditation

This is where meditation comes in. It is a training to help you achieve a state of mental clarity, emotional calmness, and increased awareness. It encompasses a variety of techniques and traditions, but at its core, meditation involves focusing the mind and eliminating distractions to achieve a state of deep relaxation and inner peace. Breathing exercises and mindfulness (where you just focus on the present moment, shutting all other thoughts out) will help, too.

Research has shown that meditation offers a wide range of benefits for both mental and physical health. These benefits may include reduced stress, anxiety, and depression, improved focus and concentration, enhanced emotional well-being, and better sleep quality. Many people also find that regular meditation practice helps them cultivate a greater sense of inner peace, resilience, and compassion.

Meditation can be practiced by people of all ages and backgrounds, and it can be done virtually anywhere, making it accessible to almost everyone. Developing a consistent meditation practice often involves starting with short sessions and gradually increasing the duration and frequency over time. Like any skill, meditation requires practice and patience, and its benefits often become more apparent with continued commitment and dedication.

Combining meditation, targeted visualization, and manifesting should create a positive mindset. This in turn will help you get positive feedback from your friends and family. Who wants to be around someone constantly nagging and negative? This in turn reinforces your self-worth and you will treat yourself kinder and look after yourself better, like eating better food and caring for yourself.

You can see it is a positive loop all starting from a positive mindset.

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Detox your body

Detox your body

Detoxifying TreatmentsHave you ever been curious about this longstanding detox aid, but not quite sure how to use it? This article is for you. Today we are talking about Epsom Salts. 

 

I have used Epsom salt on and off for many years. But this autumn I have decided to declutter my home, mind, and body on a deeper level and Epsom salts are definitely part of my armoury. For this, I have started to drink each morning a large glass of lemon water where I add half a teaspoon of Epsom salts to make them more palatable. The way to prepare it: Put half a teaspoon of Epsom salt into the glass and add a tiny bit of water, then leave the mixture overnight to dissolve. In the morning add the rest of the water (the dash of lemon juice is optional). I have one with added cinnamon flavour and it has improved my digestion. Additionally, I take some Epsom Salt baths in the evenings, 2-3 times per week. And overall it has benefitted my digestion, my skin, and my mood.

What exactly are Epsom salts and how often and how much should you use? 

Chemically speaking, Epsom salt is very different from the general sea salt. It is a magnesium sulfate and is named after a bitter saline spring near Epsom, a small town in Surrey, England. Epsom salt dissolves well in water and is therefore ideal for drinking, bathing and even watering your plants.

Bathing with epsom saltBathing: One common method is to add Epsom salts to a bath. Magnesium can be absorbed through the skin and helps to reduce inflammation, is beneficial for muscle and nerve function, and helps to prevent the hardening of arteries (a cause of stroke and heart disease). It will leave your skin very soft but dry and it is therefore important to finish your bath off with a good body lotion or body oil to lock in these salts. You should not use it every day, but best once a week or 2-3 times per week during a fast/detox. And as mentioned before a good body oil or moisturiser after the bath is a must!  If you have access to a sauna/steam room use these in-between baths.

‘Drawing cream’: Make an Epsom salt cream by mixing 1 teaspoon with oil or cold cream.  It acts like a drawing paste to get rid of infections, spots, and splinters. In the UK you can get a cream in the pharmacy that is already mixed with phenol called Magnesium Sulfate paste.

Relaxation: Epsom salt baths are also popular for relaxation and stress relief. The warm water and magnesium can potentially help soothe sore muscles and promote a sense of well-being. It has been shown to help with depression and migraines caused by stress and work overload. I suspect a lack of magnesium may play a part here, too. And Epsom salt will replenish depleted magnesium levels.

Digestive Health: Taken internally, Epsom salt is used as a laxative to help with constipation. It works by drawing water into the intestines, which can help soften stools and promote bowel movements. However, using Epsom salt as a laxative should be done under the guidance of a healthcare professional, as it can have side effects and is not recommended for everyone. You should also avoid it when you have heart and kidney problems. If in doubt please stay safe and consult a doctor first.

But if you are healthy, you can go ahead and drink a glass a day for a fortnight (say during the Waning Moon) it will help with bowel movements and extra elimination. In this case, only use half a teaspoon in a glass of 250ml water (half a pint – dissolve the salt in a small amount of water and leave it to stand overnight. The next morning add the rest of the water and drink it!) Always drink it first thing in the morning. I always notice when I have a lack of magnesium as I easily have cramps in my leg muscles after a run or during the night. Epsom Salt taken over a few days will replenish the magnesium level in your body. For more symptoms add a magnesium 7 product (it contains 7 forms of magnesium and is easily absorbed by the body).

Low magnesium levels can lead to migraines, muscle cramps, irritability, and low levels of concentration. It also plays a part in carbohydrate metabolism and a lack of magnesium over time can worsen insulin resistance. But once you are pre-diabetic or diabetic, please ask a health professional first when thinking of taking it, especially internally.

Foot Soaks: Some suggest soaking feet in Epsom salt as a way to relax and potentially draw out toxins. I find it helpful to soften rough skin. You could make an Epsom salt footbath before a pedicure.  In a more concentrated form, it helps with athlete’s foot and fungal infections.  I read that regular Epsom salt baths also help with varicose veins, but have not found any science on this.

New Moon detox weekends

When you have a few stress-free days coming up, ideally a weekend or 3 days in a row around the New Moon, use this regime.

  • Put 1 teaspoon of Epsom salts into a 250ml glass, add a tiny bit of water to dissolve the salt, and leave to stand overnight.  Add the rest of the water in the morning before drinking it first thing in the morning.   It tastes bitter, so drink it as quickly as you can or you can.
  • Stay at home and stay warm. Put socks and a jumper on. It is normal to feel a bit colder during a detox program and more importantly – stay near a toilet as you will need it soon! In the morning don’t eat, but instead prepare a big thermos flask full of your favorite herbal tea. This is how you prepare it: put 1 teaspoon of dried herbs into a sieve on top of a thermos flask, add boiling water, and remove the sieve immediately. You only want a very weak tea for this morning. Sip this tea throughout the morning and it will get the Epsom salts working and provoke a bowel movement.
  • Make a big pot of hearty vegetable soup and stick to just eating this! Additionally have as much weak herb teas and water as you like.  Fennel, peppermint, and nettle are detox favorites. Add some lemon juice or drink a lot of water. Stay off tea, coffee, any fizzy drinks, and of course alcohol. The only time you should not drink is half an hour before eating your soup and an hour afterward. This will help to digest your soup.
  • Enjoy the rest of the day watching some good TV shows, reading a good book, meditating, relaxing, and sleeping a lot.
  • In the evening have a hot bath with 2 handfuls of Epsom Salts. Before you jump into the tub, brush your body with a body brush or peeling hand glove. Then glide into the water and enjoy it by listening to music or an uplifting podcast episode.
  • Coming out of the bath, gently dab off the moisture with a bath towel, but make sure to keep some of the salt on your body. When dry, finish with an organic body oil/good moisturizer.
  • Liverpack:  This is optional but is said to be good for the liver. Soak a flannel in warm water and apply it to your liver (right side just under the rib cage).  Then place a medium-hot (but not boiling) water bottle and a big towel over the wet towel (Please prepare all this before you lie down) and finally wrap a large dry towel over both. Tuck the towel under your body to keep the hot water bottle and wet cloth in place.  Leave the hot water bottle on your liver for a good 20 minutes until it gets cold.  It is important to use this method up to 2 pm at the latest, ideally just before lunch as you don’t want to activate the liver too late in the day.
  • You can repeat this on the following day. For the next few days take some olive oil or body oil and massage your intestines in a clockwise movement (important – always go clockwise, up on your right-hand side, across on the top and down on the left, and across at the bottom – never switch the direction! You need to massage in the same way the bowel moves naturally.

For constipation: Please note, that this is only suitable on an occasional basis. If you suffer from chronic constipation, please consult your doctor.

Add 1.5 level teaspoons of Epsom salts to a glass of warm water (250ml/half a pint – again dissolve as mentioned above) and drink in large sips. This dosage is for teenagers and adults. For children 6 to 12 years old use half a level teaspoon with 250ml (half a pint) of lukewarm water.

Always start with the lowest dose and see if you need to increase it. Follow up with a liver wrap (see above).

Home and Garden:  Dissolve 1 level teaspoon of Epsom salt in a medium-sized watering can and water your plants.  Dissolve again the night before. Please use unperfumed Epsom salts here and not your bathing salts. Potatoes, tomatoes, carrots, peppers, lemons, and roses are particularly susceptible to extra magnesium. It helps with the production of flowers and stronger growth. Use this especially in spring and during the flowering season. However, using too much can be harmful to the soil. As with everything in life – it always is a happy balance. You can also sprinkle some salts directly onto the soil, ideally in spring at the time of the Waning and New Moon. The rain will dissolve it.

It also works for houseplants, especially when they have yellowing leaves and poor soil. You can always add a bit of compost to your pots and a few watering with Epsom Salt will benefit them, too.

 

Disclaimer: These are tips for healthy adults. If you suffer from health problems, particularly diabetes, heart or kidney disease or you are pregnant, then please consult a doctor first. With all these measures, start with a small dosage and see how you feel, and increase only if needed. I hope this is beneficial to you!

 

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Element Water

Element Water

Today is ruled by the element Water

Today shapes up to be an emotional, thought-provoking day. Your senses and feelings are heightened. It is a good day for being around trusted friends and family, rather a close circle than the big wide world.

But it is also a great time to look after yourself. Be kind to yourself, take some time out, read a good book, have a bath or go for a walk. Water Days are ideal days to ‘go within’ and meditate.  Like with the oxygen mask in the plane, you need to put your ‘own mask on first’ before you can help others. This is not an act of selfishness, but vital to be a happy member of society. 

If you struggle with certain issues – seek help. Once you have overcome these struggles and find yourself in a happy, balanced state, return the favor and help those who then in turn seek support. Volunteering for a local charity would be a great use of your time, but if you can’t do that, you may be able to donate. As they say – giving is even more joyous than receiving!

Water Days (as the name suggests) are ideal for watering houseplants, bringing out natural fertilizers, and starting a compost heap. They are very fertile dates for planting, especially during the Waxing Moon.
During a Waning Moon try to get a lot of the washing and deep cleaning done –  especially items that you don’t clean too often, like bedspreads, rugs, curtains, and those hidden shelves. 

Here is how the elements correspond to the phases of the moon:

Element Air

Element Air: Waxing Moon – time to network, promote and to create projects/tasks

element fireElement Fire: Full Moon – time to present, love and celebrate

 

element earth

Element Earth: Waning Moon – time to work hard and turn ideas into actions

element water

Element Water: New Moon – evaluate your work and get in tune with your emotions and inner longings.

Life can be overwhelming. This is a gentle nudge to make sure that you are not just swamped with ‘stuff’, but also leave yourself some time, even as little as 30 minutes a day, to follow your heart and spend doing something truly meaningful that is aligned with your core values. 
Once this has become a habit, these fleeting moments compound to a substantial change in outlook and quality of life. It will allow you to create a full-filled way of life brimming with happiness.  

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Manifesting, self-development and meditation

Manifesting, self-development and meditation

This symbol is all about self-development, manifesting, mindfulness and meditation. Today is a great day to revise your current method of practice and if you are not practicing at all (yet) it may be the encouragement you need to start a simple routine.

Create a routine that fits into your daily life and spend each day a few minutes practicing your routine. This should become part of your daily life.

This is a daily routine, why do I see the symbol today?

The practice is daily. However, putting a suitable program together is not easy and takes time. This symbol should encourage you to take a good look at your practice. What works and what needs to change? This symbol prompts you to look at your practice and to expand it into new ways/topics/methods.

It might be also useful to take a deeper look at how your actions impact the lives of people around you.

Most people prefer to be alone when meditating. So read a good book on this subject or download an app or audiobook. There are many good ones to choose from. If you think you prefer to join a group/class where you can get extra guidance. It does not matter how you achieve deep relaxation. Often simple routines have the best outcomes, as you can do them frequently.

Meditation for Beginners:

For all those new to meditating, try this simple exercise. All you need is 5 minutes of undisturbed rest. It could be on your bus, at your desk between calls, or in the shower.  You can do it once or multiple times a day, especially when you are very stressed!

Step 1 In the first minute just concentrate on 5 objects that you can see. Don’t let your brain engage why this object is here, how it got here, and who it belongs to. Or even did I forget to put this and that on the shopping list? No – just look calmly at 5 objects, people, a plant, your desk, and whatever else you see. Don’t attach any meaning, just notice the shape, and the color and stay focused on these 5 objects

Step 2 The next minute you concentrate on 4 things that you can hear and the same rules apply

Step 3  The next minute you concentrate on 3 things you can touch. It could be your foot in the shoe, the hand on the desk, etc.

Step 4 Now concentrate on 2 things that you can smell. If you can’t smell anything, you may want to start introducing the sense of smell into your world. Place flowers on your desk, at an aromatic candle. You can also imagine a scent you like to smell like that of fresh coffee, roses, or a certain perfume.  But other than that stay in the moment and enjoy the sensation.

Step 5  Eat one bite of something or have a sip of tea and concentrate on the taste. Whilst doing so, breathe extra, extra deeply in and out, and savor the taste.

These are simple exercises and you can do them with your eyes closed or even open if you are in an open space. I call it – mentally pulling the plug- and restart after 5 minutes, feeling more relaxed.

Here are some articles that you may find useful:

 “The Importance of Resting” 

“Can you cure depression”

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