So what can we do to keep our bodies in an energetic balance and to keep happy and healthy?
The answer is simple, but not simplistic!
A healthy body (good, nutritious food, enough sleep, a healthy weight, looking after your appearance)
A peaceful, calm environment to live in (garden, home, neigbhourhood)
A happy relationship, friendships, and harmony within your wider family
A career that fulfills you and financial stability
A spiritually fulfilled life. A belief (which could be religion, but does not have to be) that is about leaving a legacy and bringing extra harmony/joy/charity/conservation to the world. In short, you want to leave the world in a better place than you found it.
These are the fundamental pillars of a holistic lifestyle. As my lovely husband always says – Something to do, someone to love, and something to look forward to! Make sure that you always have these three in your life!
I recently had so many inquiries about healing-related subjects. So I decided to make HEALING – TOPIC OF THIS MONTH. As we can all do with an ‘extra dose of healing’ right now.
Although Living With The Moon is all about practical advice, I have many books and recipes left from my grandmother which deal with healing, mostly for preventative medical care. Of course, physical health is very important. This year showed us more than ever how we take our health for granted and that just a few changes can cause mayhem with our lives.
But I also want to include emotional and mental healing. This is sadly still seen as a bit of a taboo subject. When somebody openly admits that they find their current situation difficult to cope with – it could be because of love problems, a bereavement, work stress (including lack of work), children, menopause, etc. – whatever the reason, it is not taken as seriously as if you fall down and break your leg or have a bruised arm. Because physically harm is visible, emotional harm is not! But the hurt is the same.
The Ancient Chinese tradition saw doctors as ‘keepers of health’ rather than ‘fixers of health’. A respected doctor had happy, healthy clients, not sick ones. The main aspect of the doctor’s work was preventative. When the body started to display minor signs, like feeling unwell, insomnia, tensions, headaches, spots and so on, the doctor cured these early signs with herbal remedies, acupuncture, massages, cupping, meditation and exercise.
Traditional Chinese doctors believed that the body is full of life energy, also called Qi (pronounced chi). If it is in perfect flow, we are happy and healthy. However, if it gets stagnant and is blocked then problems appear. At first, these are subtle. But when not resolved and neglected over time, these can turn into full-blown diseases. This works for the body and mind alike.
Like early Western medicine, the Ancient Chinese medicine connected our bodies to the surrounding energy of the universe – a mantra I keep repeating as it comes up again and again in every civilization that I have studied.
So what can we do to keep our bodies in an energetic balance and to keep happy and healthy?
The answer is simple, but not simplistic!
A healthy body (good, nutritious food, enough sleep, a healthy weight, looking after your appearance)
A peaceful, calm environment to live in (garden, home, neigbhourhood)
A happy relationship, friendships, and harmony within your wider family
A career that fulfills you and financial stability
A spiritually fulfilled life. A belief (which could be religion, but does not have to be) that is about leaving a legacy and bringing extra harmony/joy/charity/conservation to the world. In short, you want to leave the world in a better place than you found it.
These are the fundamental pillars of a holistic lifestyle and I will soon introduce you to new LWTM lifestyle planning guide I am currently working on.
As my lovely husband always says – Something to do, someone to love, and something to look forward to! Make sure that you always have these three in your life!
Your skin is the largest organ of the body and often the first to signal imbalance — long before deeper issues arise. Learning to listen to these signals is a powerful form of self-care.
Apply calming, healing, and nourishing skincare products, especially during the Waxing Moon when the skin is more receptive and absorbent.
Soothing Balm for Very Dry & Stressed Skin
This traditional, deeply nourishing balm is designed to support extremely dry, cracked, and irritated skin, including dry elbows, heels, lips, and areas prone to eczema or psoriasis. It helps strengthen the skin barrier, calm inflammation, and lock in moisture. Best applied regularly, especially during the Waxing Moon, when the skin absorbs and repairs more readily.
1 tbsp calendula oil (excellent for sensitive and inflamed skin)
1 tsp beeswax pellets (optional, for a firmer balm)
5 drops lavender essential oil (calming, healing)
3 drops chamomileorfrankincense essential oil (optional, very soothing)
(If skin is extremely sensitive, omit essential oils entirely.)
Method
Gently melt the shea butter, oil and beeswax (if using) in a heatproof bowl over a pan of hot water.
Stir slowly until fully melted and combined.
Remove from heat and allow to cool slightly.
Add essential oils (if using) and stir well.
How to Use
Apply once or twice daily to affected areas
For cracked heels, elbows or very dry patches: Apply generously in the evening, cover with cotton socks or gloves, and leave overnight
For lips: use a very small amount as a protective balm
For eczema or psoriasis-prone areas: apply gently — do not rub aggressively
Pour into a clean glass jar and allow to set.
Consistency matters more than quantity.
Extra LWTM Tips
Always apply to slightly damp skin to seal in moisture
Avoid hot showers; choose lukewarm water
Use fragrance-free soaps or cleansing oils
Increase intake of healthy fats (olive oil, flaxseed, oily fish)
Drink plenty of water — skin hydration starts from within
Gentle Reminder This balm is supportive and soothing, not a medical cure. If symptoms are severe, persistent, infected, or worsening, always consult a doctor or dermatologist.
Balancing Lotion for Oily, Acne-Prone & Hormonal Skin
This light, clarifying treatment helps calm breakouts, regulate sebum production and support clearer skin — while still respecting the skin’s natural protective barrier.
Best used regularly, especially during the Waning Moon for cleansing and regulation (use the Cleansing Symbol during the Waning Moon ) and lightly during the Waxing Moon if skin feels stressed or inflamed.
Make your own lotion:
Ingredients
100 ml rose water or witch hazel (alcohol-free)
1 tbsp aloe vera gel (cooling, anti-inflammatory)
1 tsp jojoba oil (balances oil production — excellent for oily skin)
5 drops tea tree essential oil (antibacterial, clarifying)
3 drops lavender essential oil (calming, healing)
(For very sensitive skin, reduce essential oils by half or omit entirely.)
Method
Pour the rose water or witch hazel into a clean glass bottle.
Add aloe vera gel and jojoba oil.
Add essential oils if using.
Shake gently before each use.
How to Use
After cleansing, apply a small amount to a cotton pad or clean hands
Gently pat over face, neck and problem areas
Use once or twice daily
Always follow with a light, non-comedogenic moisturiser (even oily skin needs moisture)
Avoid aggressive scrubbing — consistency and gentleness are key.
Weekly Deep-Clean Mask (all moon phases)
Clarifying Clay Mask
1 tbsp green or white clay
1 tsp aloe vera gel
Enough rose water to form a smooth paste
Apply thinly, avoid eye area, leave for 5–8 minutes only (do not let fully dry), rinse with lukewarm water and moisturise.
Extra LWTM Tips
Avoid over-cleansing — twice a day is enough
Reduce sugar and highly processed foods during flare-ups
Drink plenty of water and herbal teas
Change pillowcases frequently
Avoid touching or picking the skin
For hormonal acne, patience and routine matter more than quick fixes
Gentle Reminder
This recipe supports skin balance but does not replace medical advice. If acne is severe, cystic, painful or persistent, always consult a doctor or dermatologist.
Balancing Serum for Pigmentation & Uneven Skin Tone
Here is a gentle, brightening LWTM recipe to support uneven skin tone and reduce the appearance of extra pigmentation. It focuses on regulation, renewal and protection, not harsh bleaching — which is especially important for long-term skin health.
This light serum helps support skin renewal, calm inflammation, and encourage a more even complexion over time.
Best used consistently, ideally during the Waning Moon (for regulation and clearing) and continued gently into the Waxing Moon (for repair and renewal).
Ingredients
2 tbsp rosehip seed oil (supports skin regeneration and tone)
1 tbsp jojoba oil (balances and carries actives gently)
1 tsp evening primrose oil (excellent for hormonal pigmentation)
3 drops frankincense essential oil (cell renewal and calming)
(For very sensitive skin, reduce essential oils by half or omit.)
Method
Combine all oils in a clean dark glass dropper bottle.
Gently roll the bottle between your hands to mix.
Store away from heat and direct sunlight.
How to Use
Apply 2–3 drops to clean, slightly damp skin
Gently press into pigmented areas and face
Use once daily in the evening
Always use SPF during the day — pigmentation cannot improve without sun protection
Consistency over weeks and months is key.
Weekly Brightening Mask (Optional)
Gentle Brightening Yogurt Mask
1 tbsp plain natural yogurt
1 tsp raw honey
½ tsp turmeric (very small amount — stains!)
Apply thinly, leave for 5 minutes only, rinse well and moisturise.
LWTM Lifestyle Tips for Pigmentation
Avoid harsh scrubs and aggressive exfoliation
Protect skin from sun daily (even in winter)
Support liver health with hydration and greens
Be patient — pigmentation fades slowly but steadily with care
⚠️ Gentle Reminder
Pigmentation has many causes — sun exposure, hormones, inflammation, medication or genetics. This recipe supports skin balance, but persistent or worsening pigmentation should always be assessed by a qualified dermatologist.