Conceive with the moon

Conceive with the moon

moon goddessLooking at the moon cycle can be very helpful if you are trying (or not trying) to conceive. All of you will be familiar with the normal female fertility cycle (also known as the biological cycle) where mid-cycle a woman ovulates and can conceive. This always occurs 14 days before the next period.

But then how does this explain that so many women  conceive outside this cycle – at ‘ technically not possible’ times?  There has to be more to it!

This was the question that plagued the Czech doctor Eugen Jonas in the 1950ies.  He was a psychologist and listened to many stories of  his female clients, who either suffered  from unwanted pregnancies or lack of conceiving.

He therefore decided to look more closely into the subject matter of female fertility. He  unearthed fragments from Ancient Greek and particular Babylonian texts, where doctors successfully calculated the optimum time for  conception and birth control using a method that overlapped the time of menstruation together with the path of the moon.  Combining these old texts with his own research data he realised that each woman has a time in their cycle where she was more easily aroused and ready to conceive. This cycle varied from woman to woman, as it was dependant on the time she was born. So for example a  woman  born on a  full moon day would always find  this time in the lunar cycle the easiest to conceive. He then named this second fertility cycle – the cosmobiological cycle.

Once both cycle overlap, they form a nearly  perfect birth control system which has a success rate of over 98%, higher than even the pill and completely natural.

So how does this work in practise?

Firstly  mark the start date of your last menstruation on your calendar and count 15 days on, this is the ovulation date. Mark this day with a cross. As sperm can last to up to 3 days and as ovulation does not happen always on day 15, I suggest you cross off 4 days before and 2 days after your calculated ovulation day.

So you should have crossed off day 10 to 17 after the first day of your menstruation, this is the biological cycle and this  is where the normal ‘natural birth control’ ends with a success rate of around 55%, so just following this cycle is a bit of a gamble.

The next step is to find out your cosmobiologcial date (the date within the moon cycle you were born).   I am sure you can research the day of your birth and add moon cycle to the search to find out the exact ‘moon date’  for example 3 days after New Moon, 6 days before Full Moon and so on.

Then check a current moon calendar and find which date in that cycle correlates with the moon phase date you are born. It may sound complicated, but once you know you are born on the 3rd day of the Waning Moon (so 3 days after Full Moon) you can just mark it on the LWTM life-style calendar for each month.

To make it easier here is an example:

Your first date of your last period was on the 1st January, so you would cross off 10th to 17th January. If you were born on a Full Moon (and that month it was on the 24th), then cross off the period between the 20th and the 25th Jan.

The crossed off days are the ones you can conceive, all other days should be safe.

Over time, these cycles slightly shift. This happens particularly if your own fertility cycle is either shorter or longer than the average moon cycle. There may even be times when both cycles overlap and this is an ideal opportunity for women to fall pregnant who previously found it hard to conceive.

 

 

 

 

 

The cow jumped over the moon

The cow jumped over the moon

Most of you know probably know the nursery rhyme Hey Diddle DiddleThe cat and the fiddle,The cow jumped over the moon.The little dog laughed,To see such sport,And the dish ran away with the spoon. I always pondered particularly at the line ‘ The cow jumped over...
Menstrual cycle – a better way forward with the ‘Mooncup’

Menstrual cycle – a better way forward with the ‘Mooncup’

moon cupThe curse’, as many refer to the monthly female bleeding has never been a great topic of conversation. But it is an important one as over a life time a woman spends an absolute fortune on sanitary products, an estimated  £18,000

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But is there another way.  Something to save you a lot of money and is also good for the environment (just imagine the colossal  mountain of used sanitary towels and tampons that collect just in one year, not to mention all these clogged up toilets!).

It is called the moon cup and I have used it myself for over a decade now. It is a silicone cup that is very comfortable and safe. Find out more about the Mooncup. 

When I was doing a bit of research of how many women in my neighbourhood knew facts about the menstrual cycle and the moon cup, I started a conversation with a 30ish year old woman and  was shocked when she revealed that she did not really know how many days a normal female fertility cycle lasted for or even how to count fertile days and so on. She just relied on the pill. I would have expected this response from a 14 year old girl, but not from a grown woman. I pointed her to this website and rushed home to complete this article.

What is the menstrual cycle?

 This is a series of changes that occur in a woman’s body on a roughly monthly basis. First the ovaries release an egg and this is called ovulation. At the same time your body prepares your uterus for a possible pregnancy. If the egg is indeed fertilised by a male sperm, then a nine month pregnancy is the consequence. But most of the time this does not happen, so the egg is no longer needed and the lining of the uterus sheds the egg  and this is called menstruation.

How to find out the average length of your menstrual cycle

Always count from the first day of your period until day before your next period. This is the length of your menstrual cycle. It varies from woman to woman, but anything between 21 to 34 days is seen as ‘normal’. The average time is 28 days, which is the same length as the moon cycle and the  reason why so many civilisations connected the moon with fertility. (Please read more about fertility in the article  Conceive with the moon.  )

Be also aware that if you are taking extra hormones, such as the pill or an iud with hormones, this can alter the length or frequency of your natural menstruation cycle.

Know your body

If you never suffered from heavy or painful periods or use a permanent contraceptive you may not pay much attention to it all. But I believe that  start dates, flow rates and regularity can give you important clues about the state of your health. So get your diary out (or the  monthly LWTM calendar – it is free, but you need to sign up to our list for this ), then circle the first day of each period, it is that simple.

What should you look out for? 

  • Length.  Over time you work out the average length. You need this information to find out if you are pregnant. A delayed period without pregnancy can point to a health problem or the onset of the menopause
  • Flow. Stronger periods could point to fibroids or onset of the menopause
  • Irregularities. Women with premature ovarian failure and ‘polycystic ovary syndrome’ are prone to irregular or lapsed periods, so too are women who suffer from eating disorders,  substantial weight loss/gain or are still breastfeeding.
  • Consult a doctor if
     – you  have had no period for more than 90 days and you are not pregnant
    –  you develop a strong bleeding and bleed more than seven days
    – bleed mid cycle and/or are in serious pain

  Here is  link to the official moon cup site.  

Romance and love

Romance and love

The moon is often connected to lovers and romance, particularly the time of the Full Moon. Of course, we should not just fall in love when ‘the moon is right’. But most of us live busy lives and romance can easily be crowded out. So this symbol is a reminder to organize something special for the people you care most about. This treatment is not only reserved for the love of your life. You could organize something special for an elderly parent or a child. But this time should be reserved for someone very close and special in your life.

We all think we show others how much we love them, but that is not always the case. No more!! Get your diaries out and plan something super special for the ones you care most about and show them what their love and companionship means to you.

Here is an article that has an interesting take on birth control. It is called Cosmobiological birth control. It is totally natural and has a comparable success rate to the pill. But more often it is used as a tool for conception as you can work out your most fertile days, too.

Conceive with the moon

Fertility treatment, menstruation and menopause

Fertility treatment, menstruation and menopause

Today’s topic is all to do with sexual health, conception, the menopause and menstruation. As these topics are highly individual we can not put a date in a general calendar. But it is a good day to read up about these subjects and maybe look into treatment options and try out some recipes/links that we will add in due course. Over time I will add some useful literature and natural recipes here that you can try out for yourself.

More and more couples are affected by infertility. Luckily the treatment options have improved enormously. Looking at my own friends with these issues, I can say one thing that always strikes me – that the stress of not getting pregnant over time makes it more difficult to conceive. Usually when that lifts, either by stopping a treatment or conceiving with treatment, the second time around (where there is not so much pressure) seems to be easier. But of course, this is only a rule of thumb and not always true, especially if there is an underlying medical problem.

If you are looking to upgrade to a natural way of birth control, have problems with menstruation, menopause, and other womanly problems, we aim to add more information here. You can also check out the hips, sexual organ section in Feeling Great.

Here is an article that delves a little deeper into the subject of fertility. Conceive with the moon